Demystifying LGBTQIA+

Hey, rainbow warriors and fabulous allies! Let's dive into the colorful realm of LGBTQIA+ lingo, where every letter is an affirmation and every "+" adds a dash of diversity. Don't worry if you're feeling a bit lost in the acronym soup — we're here to make it fun and easy to understand!

Daniel Quasar Progressive Pride Flag
The Daniel Quasar pride flag features the traditional rainbow with additional colors representing marginalized communities within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum; source: Grand Rapids, MI Pride Center

Understand the Letters

1. LGBT: Picture this acronym as the OG, the trailblazer, the one that started it all. It's all about celebrating our Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender friends — our fabulous foundational stones.

2. LGBTQ: Now we're mixing things up! With the 'Q' standing tall for 'Queer' or 'Questioning,' this acronym invites everyone under its vibrant umbrella. Whether you're exploring your identity or proudly embracing your unique self, there's a place for you here.

3. LGBTQIA: Time to widen our rainbow, folx. The 'IA' combo packs a punch, adding 'Intersex' and 'Asexual/Aromantic' identities into our diverse mix. We're breaking boundaries, embracing inclusivity, and celebrating every shade of the rainbow!

4. Adding + to the acronym: Say hello to the ultimate inclusive symbol — the "+". It's our way of saying, "Hey world, we're all about acceptance and love, and we're constantly evolving." Let's keep those minds open and those letters expanding, baby!

5. Queer: ‘Queer’ is a kaleidoscope of color — an ambiguous, fluid term with a shady past and a bright future. Once a hurtful slur, it’s now become a symbol of resilience and a declaration of defiance against those who dare try to silence us. Not everyone is ready to embrace the label, and that's okay! But for those who do, it’s about throwing off the shackles and dancing to the beat of our own drum.

LGBTQIA+ flags with explanations
A Visual Guide: Exploring LGBTQIA+ Flags and Identities explains sexual orientation and gender identity; source: University of California, Davis

Choosing the Right Acronym

Simplicity vs. Inclusivity: Want to keep things simple? 'LGBT' or 'LGBT+' will do the trick. But if you're all about celebrating everyone and their uniqueness, why not go with 'LGBTQ'? The more inclusive, the better!

Audience Consideration: Are you speaking to a diverse crowd? Go all out with 'LGBTQIA+' to make sure everyone feels the love. For chats with family and friends, a shorter version might just do the trick.

Personal Preference: Every rainbow warrior has their own unique flair. Respect individual preferences, and let folx choose the label that makes their hearts sing. After all, it's all about spreading love and acceptance.


Jersey City Pride from New Jersey Digest
Jersey City Pride; source: New Jersey Digest, photo by Quinn JC Blog

Navigating the rainbow road of LGBTQIA+ terms might seem like a whirlwind. But by understanding the beauty of each letter, we're paving the way for a more inclusive, supportive, and downright fabulous world. So whether you're shouting out 'LGBT’ or LGBTQ,' twirling with joy over 'LGBTQIA+,' or strutting your stuff to “Queer’ —know that you’re not alone. We're here, standing shoulder to shoulder, and our differences are what make us truly magnificent!

 

*corrections to A Visual Guide

TRANSGENDER: A person whose gender identity is different from x which is typically associated with the sex they were assigned at birth

QUEER: Can be used by those who fall anywhere on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum

INTERSEX: A person who was born with biological characteristics that don’t fit the binary markers of male or female

ASEXUAL/AROMANTIC: A person who feels little to no sexual or romantic attraction to any gender

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